Why women managers need to dress appropriately to be taken seriously in the workplace

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First impression counts. Humans are visual beings, as much as we should (and know that we need to) get to know a person before making a judgement on who he or she is as a person; one’s appearance is an indication that sets a perception.

I recall an incident that was related to me. A female colleague lamented to her co-worker, “why don’t my clients take me seriously?” as she questioned exasperatedly, she frantically gestures her pink-candied hello kitty handphone in one hand, complete with bright pink decorated nails. Is she capable? Probably so. Then why wasn’t she taken seriously? Just because of a handphone case? Yes you have every right to express yourself, but the reverse could be said as well – the person then has the right to feel or think the way he or she does as well.

While this is an extreme case, it is a very common workplace situation.

Very so often I have ladies asking me, why does this only seem to impact females. It’s simple – a man’s wardrobe is limited to shirt, pants and tie (in a white collared setting) whereas women (fortunately or unfortunately – I like to think it’s the former) have a much wider choice.

Basic rules apply, no short hems or low necklines if you want to be taken seriously. Also accessorize appropriately – remember you are not a Christmas tree, so no – more is not merrier.

Manager Mama
Manager Mama

Manager Mama aka Xin Lee is a daughter, sister, wife and working mother to two young children. She has been in middle management for over five years at a MNC headquartered in New York City and manages a team that sits across different offices in APAC. She is passionate about developing talent and mentorship. She sits on the Asia-Pacific Loans Market Association (APLMA) Young Leaders Committee and Bloomberg Women’s Committee. She is currently based in Singapore.

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